
Dear Friends and Family,
I hope all is well with everyone and that you are enjoying a wonderful fall season. I cannot believe a year has passed from when I last reached out to ask for your support to help raise funds for my very good friend Meredith Israel to aid her and her family as they battle breast cancer. First and foremost I would like to thank everyone for the overwhelming show of support last year. The response was unbelievable and in turn we were able to raise over $15,000 to help offset some of the medical expenses Meredith has already endured. But more importantly, what Miles4Meredith really did was show Meredith that she has friends and supporters all over the world (and I mean all over the world), standing behind her and rooting for her to Kick Cancers Ass. I was honored to sit down with Meredith and share with her all the people that reached out in support as well as all the notes of encouragement that were sent along. It was a special day for me as I could see by the way she sat there and went through each and every name and each and every note that she was truly taken aback and that the response from all of you was only going to give her that much more strength to continue her fight.
As some of you may or may not know from Meredith’s blog (link on the right) she has had her ups and downs this year. In January she started a chemotherapy regimen of 3 weeks of treatment and one week off which continues at present. This reprieve is just enough time for her body to gather some strength for the next round of treatments. For most people, that would pretty much shut us down as far as any other outside activities, but not Meredith. Somewhere deep down she gets herself together day after day, goes out into the world and takes what’s given to her. Family being her top priority, Meredith makes sure that her beautiful daughter Niomi lives a full and active lifestyle: from preschool activities, playtime in the park with mom and dad, trips to the beach, trips to see family and friends (especially grandma and grandpa!), and raising funds to find a cure.
I was reading a recent blog post of Meredith’s where she went on to say that she could share nothing with us but all the horrible things that the chemo does: loss of hair, hot flashes, feeling tired constantly, and the taste of metal that comes and goes…but that’s not who she is and it isn’t what she chooses to focus on. Meredith is the young woman who gets up each and every morning and gets her daughter ready for school, then heads over to Memorial Sloan for treatment, takes a meeting in the afternoon on what she can do next to help raise awareness, picks up Niomi from school and heads to Central Park for playtime, comes home and gets dinner together for the family, and then finally puts Niomi down for the night so they can start all over again the next day.
As if her day to day schedule were not demanding enough, this past winter she went back to school to take part in a writing class, a craft that she has always had a passion for and she continues to pursue as she shares her story with the world. June marked the one year anniversary of her diagnosis, which in turn she put a positive spin on by celebrating her 37th birthday as well as all of her accomplishments from the prior year with a group of family and friends. In July she put together a birthday party for Niomi in Central Park and then Gary, Meredith and Niomi set out for a two week trip to South Africa which is Gary’s homeland. It is there that Gary and Meredith decided to make it official as Gary proposed and Meredith happily accepted. The two of them are now in the midst of planning a special wedding for May of 2011.
As the case has been since day one Meredith is highly driven to raise awareness and ensure women are informed as early as possible to the risks they face from the threat of breast cancer. As you can see all her efforts go towards the broader problem and her dedication to find a cure and continue to fight are second to none. She was recently featured in this special CBS documentary that aired the night before the New York City Susan G. Komen Walk for the Cure 2010. In addition, The Today Show on NBC filmed her shaving her head and is airing a story on October 21st in the 8:00 a.m. hour, so be sure to tune in! She has also helped to raise over $80K for breast cancer charities throughout the US since her diagnosis less than 18 months ago.
This continued selflessness despite plenty of reasons to think only of herself and her immediate loved ones is why I am going to keep on running as Miles4Meredith continues in 2010. Thanks to a good friend from the old neighborhood in Bridgewater (Kelly Sullivan Cahill), I was able to gain entrance into the 2010 New York City Marathon and on November 7 I will run 26.2 miles in support of Meredith. Not only to raise funds to help offset the enormous pile of medical expenses that she and her family continue to incur, but more importantly try to give back to a young woman who has given so much of herself the past year and a half as she battles this disease that consumes too many. In fact, the pervasiveness of the disease is all the more real this year for the Israel family: regretfully, it was discovered a few months ago that Meredith’s mother Laurie also now has breast cancer. Thankfully they caught it early and she is doing well so far. She began radiation treatments this month as they fight this disease together.
As I detailed last year, the disease is only one aspect of the fight and the financial toll routinely destroys lives too. For those who are able to do so, I ask that you make a contribution (however small) again this year and with the race just a few weeks away also help me by getting the word out and sharing this site with anyone you think would like to pitch in or simply reposting it on your Facebook or Twitter profiles. It may be a bit cliché, but it is so true that just a few dollars can go a very long way (as we all proved working together last year!) towards alleviating a bit of pressure from the strong shoulders of this wonderful young woman. She’s already paying it forward through her work, fundraising for the cure and through her awareness has saved three women’s lives and counseled many others.
If you need to reach me directly please call 908.685.9260 or email me at: tmbohen@hotmail.com.
Best regards,
Tom Bohen
P.S. For those of you who prefer to mail a donation please send a check made out to Miles 4 Meredith to:
3 Pueblo Trail
Branchburg, NJ 08876